Planning your bridal look is one of the most exciting parts of your wedding journey — but when it comes to choosing your hairstyle, it can also feel a little overwhelming.
Soft waves or an elegant updo? Sleek and polished or relaxed and romantic?
If you’re not quite sure where to start, you’re definitely not alone.
As a Kent bridal hairstylist, I work with brides at all stages — from those with a clear vision to those who have absolutely no idea (which is more common than you might think!).
So, here’s a simple guide to help you choose a bridal hairstyle that feels completely you.
Start With Your Dress
Your wedding dress plays a huge role in shaping your hairstyle.
For example:
- Detailed or high-neck dresses often pair beautifully with soft updos
- Strapless or minimalist gowns work well with flowing waves or half-up styles
Your hair should complement your dress — not compete with it.
Think About Your Venue
Your venue can have more influence than you might realise — especially here in Kent, where every setting has its own unique feel.
For example:
- At The Orangery Maidstone, with its elegant gardens and light-filled spaces, soft romantic waves or a relaxed half-up style work beautifully.
- If you’re getting married at Cooling Castle Barn, a textured updo or boho braid complements the rustic setting perfectly (and holds well outdoors).
- For a more classic venue like Leeds Castle, timeless low buns or polished styles suit the setting effortlessly.
It’s also worth thinking about the British weather (because we all know it loves to keep us guessing!) — choosing a style that works with your environment is key.
Consider Your Hair Type
Not every style works for every hair type — and that’s completely okay.
Part of my role is helping you choose something that:
- Works with your natural hair
- Feels comfortable
- Holds beautifully throughout the day
This is where expert advice really makes all the difference.
Think About Longevity
Your hairstyle needs to last from “I do” to the dance floor — and still look incredible in your photos.
That’s why I always create styles that are:
- Secure
- Weather-resistant
- Designed to last all day
Especially for outdoor weddings across Kent, this is something I always keep in mind.
Don’t Worry If You’re Unsure
One of the biggest things I hear from brides is:
“I don’t know what will suit me.”
And honestly? That’s completely normal.
You don’t need to have everything figured out before booking — that’s what I’m here for.
This Is Where Your Hair Trial Comes In
If you’re still deciding on your bridal hairstyle, your trial is where everything starts to come together.
It gives you the chance to:
- Try different styles
- See what suits you best
- Feel confident in your final look
If you’d like to know exactly what happens during your trial, you can read more here:
What to Expect at Your Bridal Hair Trial
A Final Thought
Your bridal hairstyle should feel like the very best version of you — not something overly complicated or uncomfortable.
When everything comes together, you’ll know. It will just feel right.
Let’s Start Planning Your Bridal Hair
If you’re getting married in Kent and are starting to think about your bridal hair, I’d love to help guide you through the process.
From your first ideas to your wedding morning, I’ll be there to make sure everything feels calm, enjoyable, and completely tailored to you.
Ashleigh x
